And the winner is….Me! Yes say that with me! Its me! In order to be a winner you have to think, feel and believe that you are a winner. Being a winner is all about your mindset and your perception of things. If you can become proficient at thinking as a winner you will automatically walk as a winner. Although this sounds very easy, society has set up a perception of certain qualities that you have to have in order to be a winner! To declare that you are a winner and think like a winner, you have to become intentionally aware of your thoughts, actions and how this can affect each and every part of your life.
I’ve learned how to arrive on the scene looking and feeling like a winner. One of the best ways to arrive like a winner is to dress like one. As a confident woman its very important to me to keep myself up, making sure that I take time for me and play a little dress up from time to time. There is nothing like finding a dress that says “And the winner is…”. And this unique colored dress speaks volumes not because of the style but the color is absolutely gorgeous. Although Spring is playing dodge ball with us here in Florida, I’m still playing with color and this color is defintely my go to color.
Here are 4 ways to forever walk as a winner
- Embrace Being Unapologetically You!
Sometimes in life we want to dim our light for the sake of others. NOPE…Not anymore! As a winner learn to embrace the things that are different and the things that make you unique. When you are walking in purpose, a lot of people may not completely understand why you do the things you do and how you make it work. Its not up to you to figure out their why….Its up to you to figure out your how. You also must learn how to embrace you and be complexly ok with it. Focusing on someone else’s glory will only have your running in circles because its just not who you were created to be.
- Stay consistent to purpose
Purpose is the reason for which something is done or created. It’s the objective to something. If it’s your reason for being than you must truly live in it every day. Accepting that you have purpose over your life makes you a winner. Apart of being a winner is putting in work and time every single day. You must choose to be a better version of you than you were on yesterday. When you stay consistent to your purpose you will see growth and elevation on your journey.
- Forgive
Forgiveness is one of the hardest words for humans to follow. We live in a society where we always want to be the one right. Society seems to have made people feel that being humble and caring for other feelings first is not being strong. When you are a winner you learn how not to let circumstances consume you. That sometimes means apologizing, even when you are not wrong. Yes, I know this is a hard pill to swallow. However, remember forgiveness is not for them its for you. When you learn that the emotion that you feel behind someone actions is not everlasting, you will learn to shake it and go. Learn the lesson go to the next level.
- But with Faith…..All things are possible, nothings impossible
Winners will never ask if it’s possible, they just make it possible. I have come to the conclusion that I make the struggle look good all while achieving and slaying these goals. My drive for my purpose is so strong that giving up is not a option. My faith is based on he will make a way out of no way. Make it practice
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Awesome message Shawana! Great Blog and encouraging, motivating, and uplifting words!!!!! Love it girl!